20 tips untuk kurangkan bajet perkahwinan

1. Buat majlis yang ala kadar jer – simple, tapi meriah. Tak yah buat la bende2 yg tak begitu penting macam makan beradap, hiasan bilik pengantin, arc, kompang, silat dll. Semua bende nie hanya akan menambahkan lagi bajet you all.

2. Mintak tolong sedara mara dan orang2 kampung – kalu buat kat kampung, lakukan secara gotong-royong. Gerenti bleh jimat kos. Kalu nak lagi mudah, pakai jer khidmat katering… !

 

3. Jgn jemput SEMUA org yg korang kenal – jangan plak ko pi jemput semua orang yang ko kenal dari kecik sampai la ko besar.. :-)  nanti satu stadium pun tak muat…huhu…  seelok-eloknya hanya jemput sedara mara terdekat,    kengkawan dan jiran tetangga… :-)

4. Tak yah membazir untuk bersalin banyak2 baju – baju akad nikah dan baju sanding pun dah kira cukup. Nanti tak pasal2 ngko pulak yang semput akibat terpaksa mencuba terlalu banyak persalinan… :-p

5. Elakkan buat masa cuti skolah (kalu bulehla, yer) – kalu ikut kebiasaan, memang la ramai orang akan buat kenduri kawin time nie. Sebabnya, masa  ni lah ramai orang yang cuti and balik kampung… so lagi la meriah majlis you all nanti dengan kehadiran ramai orang. Tapi kalau buleh elakkanlah…sbb time tu la semua barang2 untuk preparation kahwin naik hage beb! Seriously….

6. Barang hantaran tak perlu byk2 – cukuplah sekadar 5 berbalas 7 ker… beli barang2 yang perlu sudah la yer… dan kalu takde ‘bajet’ sangat, jangan pulak beli barang yang terlalu mahal… Ukurlah baju di badan sendiri, orait?

7. Beli belah masa tgh sale – kite bertuah sangat la  sbb duk kat bumi Malaysia nie, di mana Mega Sale dibuat 3x setahun!..huhu:-D.. Masa nie lah mcm2 promosi kluar …’Harga Giler’ la, ‘Harga Maut’ la… mcm2 jenis harga ader…     harga ‘cekik darah’ pun ader… :-p  So, time nie la sesuai sgt2 untuk you all pi shopping untuk beli barang2 kawin! Yang penting, korang kenalah pandai pilih dan jangan mudah tertipu dengan promosi giler2, yer… :-)

8. Pilih pakej perkahwinan – jangan plak ko sewa baju kawin kat kedai A, pelamin kat kedai  B, make-up plak kat C and so on… nanti kepala ko gak yg naik pusing …. better sewa semua skali dlm satu bundle.. tak yah susah2 ..dan pilih la pakej kawin yang sesuai dan berpatutan.

9. Jgn berhabis untuk beli brg kemas – alahai… pompuan nie kalu tengok barang kemas jek …waa… rambang mata!… :-p  Tapi, you all kena la pandai2 tahan diri. Sebelum kawin nie, pilih la barang kemas ikut bajet yg ader… bila2   pas kawin, baru la you suruh laki you beli bertan2 barang kemas gitu…:-D

10. Duit hantaran kenalah berpada2 – pesanan buat pihak pompuan: tolong   jangan letak rate yg melampau tinggi! Korang bukannye nak jual    anak…sebaliknya mengamanahkan anak korang untuk dijaga oleh orang lain      plak… J kesian sebelah lelaki, kan? Sebaliknya, tengok pada kemampuan   mereka dlu… nie tidak, dah tau bakal menantu tu keje tukang kebun, mintak  duit hantaran 10K. Ade ke patut!

11. Cuba buat sendiri apa yang buleh korang buat – kalu korang ada masa dan  sedikit skil, korang buleh buat sendiri bende2 senang cam gubah barang2 hantaran ker, hias bilik pengantin ker, hias meja makan beradap dsb. lagi.    Lagi jimat, beb!

12. Buat majlis sanding on the same day as akad nikah – gerenti jimat masa, wang dan tenaga… tak yah buat 2/3 kali keje…

13. Kalu tak cukup bajet, tak yah la nak berhabis untuk wedding entertainment – misalnya macam kompang ker silat ker karaoke dsb lagi. Semua tue hanya untuk hiburan semata-mata dan bukan agenda penting. Takde pun takpe kan?

14. Majlis kenduri kahwin – kalu bajet ciput, buat majlis kawin yang ala kadar jer la, kan? Tak yah la nak buat grand2 sangat seperti buat kat hotel ke, taman ke, dalam laut ke..:-) Kalu kedua pasangan pengantin duk area sama, apa kata korang gabung jer untuk buat majlis…lagi jimat, kan? Kalau duk jauh2 plak, cukuplah sebelah pompuan buat meriah skit, sementara belah lelaki buat simple jek…

15. Pinjam baju nikah/sanding – kalau ada adik beradik lain yg dah kawin, pinjam jer baju diorang (kalu dah tak ketinggalan zaman lagi la.. :-p) Buleh jimat sikit… huhu

16. Elakkan dari tempah baju kawin yang baru – maksudnya, upah jahit baju baru. Sebaliknya sewa jer yg dah siap jahit. Bukan aper, kalu nak buat baju baru, kena pikir kos beli kain (2/3 jenis kain dan yg mahal2 plak tu …) dan kos  upah tukang jahit lagi, ye tak? … Tapi pakai hanya beberapa jam dan sekali jer seumur hidup …tak ke rugi nama nyer tue? Pikir2 kan lah…

17. Postpone honeymoon - Kalu bajet ciput atau ngam2 je untuk majlis kenduri kawin, honeymoon tak yah buat lagik la. Postpone jer ke masa yang sesuai  atau semasa korang dpt apa-apa  ‘durian runtuh’ nanti. Atau untuk yg ada sedara mara kaya tuh, moga2 korang akan dpt sponsor…huhu :-)

18. Design sendiri kad jemputan – kalu ko tak reti nak design pun, cari la kengkawan yang reti …sbb skrg nie zaman IT, dah ramai orang yg reti buat  mende2 camnie… design kad yang simple pun jadik… buat dalam Ms Word         pun bleh la…:-)

19. Buat senarai semak atau checklist siap2 – checklist nie memang penting dan kena buat awl2 lagi. Darinya korang buleh tau brape byk yang bakal dibelanjakan. Dan  ia jugak memudahkan korang untuk ‘keep track’ utk bende2 yg telah atau  blom dibuat atau dibeli…

20. Pilih pakej fotografi yang sesuai – tak yah la buat dlm studio ker atau video ker … membazir jer…kosnya buleh mencecah sampai ribuan ringgit, beb!  Cukupla sekadar 2 rollwedding album yang terisi dgn gambar2 yang comel lagi cantek! gambar yang disertakan skali dengan 1 atau 2 buah

Tips on How to Forget Your Ex

1. Call your friends up and ask what they are doing so you could hang out and do guy things.
2. Avoid going to places where there are too many memories of the two of you together.  
• Find a new "happy place."
3. Start a hobby and get really good at it.
4. Exercise 
• put your mind on something new, like training for a marathon, improving your tennis game, or working on those abs.
5. Work hard. 
• Work can be a great distraction, especially if you feel like you're accomplishing something. 

 

 

1. Distract yourself. 

•  Movies, sightseeing, outdoor activities, games and a good book are all possibilities.
  
1. Get clear with your ex.  
• If there are a lot of unresolved issues involving money, possessions, etc., clear them up. 
2. Take down all her/his pictures and anything that reminds you of her/him.
3. Make a list of the things you don't like about your ex.
•  When you're missing the good times, read about the bad times.
4. It might seem impossible at first, but try flirting with other girls, even if you don't like them.
• Eventually you'll find one you like.
5. Round up all the ex's belongings in your home and put them somewhere in a bag/box

• Don't look at pictures or other things that remind you of her/him.
• Some say, If she/he calls you or writes you in anyway, do not answer or reply. THIS IS ABSOLUTELY NOT TRUE IN MOST SITUATIONS. If she/he does talk to you, reply, but don't get into huge details or huge conversations.
• If you run into each other at the same place, leave if possible, or stay at the opposite end of wherever she/he is.
• Avoid her/him. There will be someone else in your love life who will make her/him seem like a stepping stone.

• No matter how much you may want to be friends, you have to make her/him or yourself the enemy. This may or may not be temporary, but it's necessary for this time being.
• Do not think about her/him!
• Try to act mature and hope she/he does the same, there's nothing worse than trying to make each other jealous.

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5 Tanda Si Dia Masih Ingat Kekasih Lama

• Dia sering membandingkan kamu dengan bekas teman lelakinya. Ini bermakna dia sebenarnya masih tidak dapat melupakan bekas teman lelakinya, sebab itulah dia sering mengatakan kamu mengingatkannya terhadap si dia.
• Dia mengajak kamu membina hubungan lebih serius dengan tergesa-gesa. Misalnya berkenalan tidak sampai beberapa bulan sudah mengajak kamu bertunang. Ini bermakna dia sebenarnya cuba menutup perasaan dirinya yang masih berbelah bahagi dan untuk menyelamatkan keadaan, dia membina komitmen baru.

• Sikapnya sering berubah-ubah. Semalam layanan yang diberikan terhadapmu cukup mesra. Hari ini, dia seolah-olah cuba menjauhkan diri. Jika ini sikapnya, bermakna dia masih lagi terperanjat gara-gara putus cinta dengan bekas teman lelakinya. 
• Berpura-pura gembira. Salah satu cara untuk melupakan bekas kekasih ialah dengan berpura-pura gembira. Dia bersikap seolah-olah tiada apa yang berlaku, sedangkan dia sebenarnya menahan rasa sedih.
• Simpan gambarnya. Walaupun si dia memberi alasan bahawa dia dah tak ada apa-apa perasaan dan itu hanyalah sekeping gambar, tapi usah dibiarkan. Bahaya tu! Bermakna kenangan di antara mereka berdua akan tetap dalam ingatannya. 

Sayangi Orang yang Kita Sayang Sebelum Terlambat

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.

She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.

She requested that every day for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.

I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.

Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.

My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push thru with the divorce.-- At least, in the eyes of our son--- I'm a loving husband....

Petua mengempiskan perut dan melangsingkan badan.

1.    Kempiskan perut dengan Asam Keping.

·         Ambil satu atau 2 keping asam keping dan masukkan ke dalam segelas air panas..

·         Biar beberapa jam sehingga asam keping menjadi kembang

·         Minum setiap pagi dan malam.

·         Jika di amalkan selalu insyaalah perut yang buncit akan berkurangan.

2.    Lansing dengan teh dan limau kasturi.

·         Sebelum sarapan pagi elok di amalkan minum teh tanpa gula.

·         Perahkan jus limau kasturi ke dalam teh anda.

3.    Lansing dengan daun cekur.

·         Ambil segenggam daun cekur, tepung beras,asam jawa,gula merah, gula pasir & garam

·         Campurkan kesemua bahan tadi dan di tumbuk.

·         Masukkan 1/2 gelas air.

·         Tapis dan minum selama 4 hari berturut- turut.

4.    Khasiat asam jawa.

·         Ramas air asam jawa dalam 1 gelas.

·         Masukkan air tadi ke dalam peti sejuk.

·         Minum air tersebut selepas makan tengah hari atau selepas makan malam.

Petua Hilangkan Jeragat di Muka

• Petua 1 : Sapukan kulit pisang berangan ke jeragat. Biar 5 minit dan bersihkan muka dengan air bersih.
• Petua 2 : Guna putih telur, rendam tisu dlm putih telur dan tekapkan kat muka .. tekap sehingga tisu menjadi kering, buang tisu tersebut dan cuci muka anda dengan air yang bersih.
• Petua 3 : Kutip beberapa helai sireh muda dan simpan di dalam peti sejuk. Setiap pagi ambil sehelai dan terus gosok di sekitar tempat jeragat tersebut. 

• Petua 4 : Ambil 2 inci daun betik, 1 genggam beras, Air dan 1 inci kulit kayu manis. Rendam terlebih dahulu beras dengan air semalaman, setelah kembang tumbuk @ kisar dengan sedikit air agak-agak boleh dikisar (jangan terlalu banyak) bersama daun betik dan kulit kayu manis. Setelah siap, sapukan di seluruh wajah dan biarkan kering lebih kurang 15-20 minit kemudian lembabkan muka, gosok (seperti scrub) dan cuci. Bagi mendapatkan kesegaran, cuci dengan air suam.
• Petua 5 : Ambil hampas kelapa dan gosokkan di seluruh wajah.Biarkan selama 15 minit atau lebih. Amalkan selalu, insya-Allah jeragat dapat dihindarkan malahan kulit wajah menjadi halus dan gebu.
• Petua 6 : Wapkan muka terlebih dahulu selama 5 minit. Caranya ialah dengan memasak air panas hingga mendidih, angkat dan suakan muka kepermukaan bekas air tersebut agar wap air tersebut mengenai wajah anda. Setelah itu ambil kapas dan sapukan sedikit minyak zaitun ginvera ke muka yang telah diwap tadi. kemudian basuh muka dan letakkan piling St Ives (dapatkan di farmasi) sapu pada muka sehingga kering dan kemudian gosok perlahan sehingga piling terkeluar. cuci muka kemudian letakan cream pemutih muka ikut kesesuaian dibahagian yang ada jeragat @ diseluruh kawasan wajah anda.

Tips Cerahkan Kulit

1.  Rendam beras pulut hingga lembut.
2.  kemudian ditumbuk sehingga lumat.
3. Sebelum mandi, lumurkan seluruh badan dengan beras yang ditumbuk.
4. biarkan lumuran tadi separuh kering, sental kulit anda perlahan2.
5. Selepas itu dibilas dengan air/mandi.

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1. Ambil 4 hingga 5 helai pucuk jambu dan bersihkannya.
2. Tumbuk ia sampai hancur dan campurkan dengan sedikit air bersih.
3. Kemudian, sapu serta gosokkan secara perlahan-lahan bahan tadi ke muka anda.
4. Lakukan langkah no.3 sekurang-kurang dalam 5 minit.
5. Selepas itu, cucilah muka anda dengan air bersih dan lapkannya dengan tuala lembut.