Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Tips on How to Forget Your Ex


  1. Call your friends up and ask what they are doing so you could hang out and do guy things.
  2. Avoid going to places where there are too many memories of the two of you together.  
    • Find a new "happy place."
  3. Start a hobby and get really good at it.
  4. Exercise 
    • put your mind on something new, like training for a marathon, improving your tennis game, or working on those abs.
  5. Work hard. 
    • Work can be a great distraction, especially if you feel like you're accomplishing something. 
 
 
  1. Distract yourself. 
    •  Movies, sightseeing, outdoor activities, games and a good book are all possibilities.
  1. Get clear with your ex.  
    • If there are a lot of unresolved issues involving money, possessions, etc., clear them up. 
  2. Take down all her/his pictures and anything that reminds you of her/him.
  3. Make a list of the things you don't like about your ex.
    •  When you're missing the good times, read about the bad times.
  4. It might seem impossible at first, but try flirting with other girls, even if you don't like them.
    • Eventually you'll find one you like.
  5. Round up all the ex's belongings in your home and put them somewhere in a bag/box


  • Don't look at pictures or other things that remind you of her/him.
  • Some say, If she/he calls you or writes you in anyway, do not answer or reply. THIS IS ABSOLUTELY NOT TRUE IN MOST SITUATIONS. If she/he does talk to you, reply, but don't get into huge details or huge conversations.
  • If you run into each other at the same place, leave if possible, or stay at the opposite end of wherever she/he is.
  • Avoid her/him. There will be someone else in your love life who will make her/him seem like a stepping stone.
  • No matter how much you may want to be friends, you have to make her/him or yourself the enemy. This may or may not be temporary, but it's necessary for this time being.
  • Do not think about her/him!
  • Try to act mature and hope she/he does the same, there's nothing worse than trying to make each other jealous.

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